One of the things we got the kids for christmas was a game called "The Sneaky, Snacky Squirrel Game." First, the box looked cool - an immediate draw for me! Second, it was for 2-4 players age 3+, exactly the combo we have in our house. Third, it involved a pincher (my kids always play with my kitchen tongs, Joe's pliers, Kari's hair clips, or anything that pinches) so I figured that was a good sign. Fourth, there was a little silver sticker saying it had won some award, though I honestly didn't even look at what award - the toy manufacturers should just start putting silver or gold stickers on their stuff and I'll buy it, thinking it's won some prestigious honor. Anyway, it looked pretty fun and was a game, not a toy, so we got it.
I am SO GLAD we got it! It's the most fun game, and TOTALLY easy for anyone around that age - even Caroline liked picking up the acorns with the pincher. Did I mention? The pincher is a SQUIRREL!
You spin the wheel to determine what to pick up (or put back), then grasp the little rubbery acorns with his squirrelly paws and deposit the colored 'corn into your coordinating tree stump. Even Joe and I enjoy this game! It defeinitely deserved whatever honor that silver sticker was advertising, and now I recommend you go get it for yourselves. $20 at Target.
Saturday, December 29, 2012
Friday, December 28, 2012
Naps made easy
For her nap today Caroline wanted to sleep with Ethan's pacifier and her "tea-pop" (new teapot).
I told Eli it was his nap time, too, and while I was upstairs getting Caroline settled he went down to his room, turned on his fan, and tucked himself into bed. DANG, Eli, sometimes you're just awesome.
Here's Caroline and her best bud Amelia, both pacifier conniseurs.
I told Eli it was his nap time, too, and while I was upstairs getting Caroline settled he went down to his room, turned on his fan, and tucked himself into bed. DANG, Eli, sometimes you're just awesome.
Thursday, December 27, 2012
Confessions of a Grinch
I want people to know we have a real life with real kids and real setbacks, and sometimes posts like Christmas where everyone is smiling and happy makes it easy to forget that being a parent is HARD, so I'm going to come clean.
Christmas day was great, but Christmas EVE day was awful, and it was all my fault. I freaked out at the kids and was having an awful morning; when Patrick asked why I was so grumpy I sat down and really thought about it, then really talked it out with him. What came out was that I was frustrated the kids weren't putting as much importance on their presents as I thought they should (they had broken some toys that morning that I was upset about), and then of course, I realised what I was saying. Not ENOUGH importance on gifts? Who's the idiot here? So I continued talking it out with Patrick, and later that evening with Joe, and we decided that next Christmas will be different - any presents among our little family will be homemade, from the heart and with real purpose, not from the store where I'm going to be upset some kid kicked their $30 toy on accident.
Also, I hadn't spent any time serving people this year, and so the time for me was solely focused on gifts, so next year we will have an advent of sorts where each day we have an activity related to service, like making cards and taking them to people in retirement homes or in the hospital, serving at the soup kitchen, taking meals to families who are struggling, getting families from "the giving tree," or simply making treats for the neighbors. I did service projects at our ward activity, and picked items off our ward "giving tree" but none of the kids were involved in those and seriously, we could be doing so much better! I felt like a dummy for not figuring this out until my 29th Christmas, but better late then never! And still plenty of time for my kids, of course :) So next year will be different, but in the meantime it was a bit late, so we had Christmas in a more traditionally commercial way, opening TONS of gifts, and it really turned out GREAT, the kids had so much fun. I'm certainly not ordering people to not get gifts next year, I know one of the most fun things is to buy awesome toys for kids! (Which is why I got so caught up in it). We will still get gifts for people outside our little nucleus, but I'll have the kids participate in that more and include some of their own work. You'll probably hear more about it next November or so, when we start putting it in action, but for now I'm going to start my planning, put some of those activities in envelopes for us to open next Christmas season, and just try to be a more relaxed mom in general.
Christmas day was great, but Christmas EVE day was awful, and it was all my fault. I freaked out at the kids and was having an awful morning; when Patrick asked why I was so grumpy I sat down and really thought about it, then really talked it out with him. What came out was that I was frustrated the kids weren't putting as much importance on their presents as I thought they should (they had broken some toys that morning that I was upset about), and then of course, I realised what I was saying. Not ENOUGH importance on gifts? Who's the idiot here? So I continued talking it out with Patrick, and later that evening with Joe, and we decided that next Christmas will be different - any presents among our little family will be homemade, from the heart and with real purpose, not from the store where I'm going to be upset some kid kicked their $30 toy on accident.
Also, I hadn't spent any time serving people this year, and so the time for me was solely focused on gifts, so next year we will have an advent of sorts where each day we have an activity related to service, like making cards and taking them to people in retirement homes or in the hospital, serving at the soup kitchen, taking meals to families who are struggling, getting families from "the giving tree," or simply making treats for the neighbors. I did service projects at our ward activity, and picked items off our ward "giving tree" but none of the kids were involved in those and seriously, we could be doing so much better! I felt like a dummy for not figuring this out until my 29th Christmas, but better late then never! And still plenty of time for my kids, of course :) So next year will be different, but in the meantime it was a bit late, so we had Christmas in a more traditionally commercial way, opening TONS of gifts, and it really turned out GREAT, the kids had so much fun. I'm certainly not ordering people to not get gifts next year, I know one of the most fun things is to buy awesome toys for kids! (Which is why I got so caught up in it). We will still get gifts for people outside our little nucleus, but I'll have the kids participate in that more and include some of their own work. You'll probably hear more about it next November or so, when we start putting it in action, but for now I'm going to start my planning, put some of those activities in envelopes for us to open next Christmas season, and just try to be a more relaxed mom in general.
Wednesday, December 26, 2012
Very merry
What time is it? CHRISTMAS TIME!
A time to hang out with family
A time to unwrap gifts
A time to serve one another (and our dollies)
A time to use our talents (in this case, punching)
A time to gather together for games
Christmas was a GREAT time, is what I'm saying :) We hope you all had a wonderful time with your friends and family and the season has brought you a measure of peace and hope for the new year!
Friday, December 21, 2012
Time for Tea
Joe's parents got Caroline a tea set for her birthday. I figured Eli might steal it, he really likes the toy teapot at Kari's house, but I hadn't figured it would be SO popular! It's made from recycled milk jugs so it's safe for real food (and dishwasher safe, a "must" in my house since I'm the laziest handwasher you've ever seen) and the teapot has a real spout, so we've been enjoying tea parties at our house. Not drinking tea, of course, we have KoolAid and hot chocolate parties instead, with marshmallows for lumps of sugar.
Patrick takes it very seriously, and is the only one who doesn't spill all over.
Caroline is a mess (notice the beginning of the mess doesn her shirt)
Eli likes to be the pourer. By "likes" I mean "throws a tantrum if someone else pours"
And here are my Tea Partiers! It's a nice way to start the day.
Thursday, December 20, 2012
Overheard
Patrick, to Eli: "When you grow up, then we can go into outerspace."
...yep, Eli growing up is the only thing holding you back....
Patrick: Let's play Guesstimation tonight!
Eli: What's Guesstimation?
Mom: It's a game where you guess numbers
Eli: I guess green
Mom: Well, green isn't a number
Eli: Okay, then I guess red
...yep, Eli growing up is the only thing holding you back....
Patrick: Let's play Guesstimation tonight!
Eli: What's Guesstimation?
Mom: It's a game where you guess numbers
Eli: I guess green
Mom: Well, green isn't a number
Eli: Okay, then I guess red
Wednesday, December 19, 2012
How's Patrick?
Patrick is great! (did you expect another response by now?) He continually astounds me with the things he picks up on, so I have to watch myself. Sometimes I do a really terrible job of watching myself and then we have a little learning moment, like "how to 'read' people when they're really mad, and what to do about it" and "reasons adults are hypocrites sometimes and eat cookies when they just said you couldn't have one." I'm sure he teaches me more than I teach him.
On second thought, I AM teaching him how to play the piano, so he's not teaching me anything but patience there.
We sort of died on reading Harry Potter, there was too much teenage angst and not enough action. Instead, we checked out "The Red Pyramid" by Rick Riordan, the same guy who wrote "The Lightning Thief" (which was all checked out, we tried to get that one first). It's the same idea as Percy Jackson, but with ancient Egyptian instead of ancient Greek mythology, so I bring the laptop to the couch with us and look up pictures of things it mentions, like pyramids and obelisks and tiger fish in the Nile (look 'em up! Very scary). Again, a learning experience for us both.
He's beginning to be a fantastic reader! By fantastic I mean he reads very beginner books by himself, one syllable at a time, but he doesn't get frustrated and quit. Hey, that's all I ask!
We promised him rollerblades when he learned to read, so now he has a nice set of rollerblades! He's absolutely terrible at them. We should have promised him an ice cream sundae or something.
He rides his bike without training wheels now, and he IS very good at the bike. He always wants to ride out on the driveway, the side of our house that gets no sun and is cold, so on days when I'm an awesome nice mom I go out and sit and read with my coat on, or ride Joe's bike along with him. Most days, average frazzled mom days, I try to distract him with play-doh inside instead so I can get some housework done or nurse Ethan. SOME days I get lucky and the backyard is exciting, like being full of snow, and then he doesn't mind which yard he's in because it's all fun.
He continues to draw amazing pictures and has branched out from dinosaurs, though they're still his favorite subject. He drew the the spinosaurus he wants on his birthday cake. I'm undecided - do I give the bakery an awesome picture of a fierce spinosaurus to put on the cake, or do I hand over the less-than-terrifying picture he drew and ask them to copy that? (I've decided I'm too lazy to try making a spinosaurus cake myself and I'll pay good money for peace of mind.) We'll see, I suppose, when he turns FIVE next month!
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